Support for Dads
At Stepmum Space, we began with one clear mission: to support Stepmothers navigating the emotional complexity of blended family life. That mission remains at the heart of everything we do. But over time, we’ve listened, learned, and grown, because stepfamily dynamics don’t exist in isolation.
We now offer specialist support for step-couples and dads, recognising that the challenges they face are often misunderstood or overlooked by traditional relationship coaching and therapy. Being part of a step-couple brings a unique emotional landscape, one that requires more than generic advice. It demands insight into loyalty binds, parenting conflicts, and the invisible emotional labour that comes with loving children who aren’t biologically yours.
We also know, from both professional experience and personal insight, that dads are central to the health of any stepfamily. They’re often the emotional anchor, loved by their children, supported by their partner, and yet caught in the crossfire of past relationships. Many find themselves stuck in the middle, trying to keep the peace while navigating the demands of a co-parent who may be manipulative or controlling. It’s a position that can feel impossible.
We also hold space for dads who are grieving. For those whose children have lost their mum, the emotional terrain can be even more delicate. These men often carry a deep desire to honour her memory, to ensure their children feel connected to their Mum. But they also want, and deserve, to build something new with their partner, without feeling like they’re living in the shadow of grief. It’s a tightrope. And we walk it with you.
We understand how this grief can quietly shape the experience of the new partner. She may love deeply, show up fully, and yet still feel like a second choice, like her happiness must take a back seat to the loss that came before her. That’s a heavy load, which is rarely spoken about. But it matters. Because no one should feel like they’re competing with a memory, or like their presence is somehow less valid. We believe it’s possible to honour the past while embracing the present.
And because many men are socialised to “just get on with it,” they often minimise their own distress, bury their heads, and hope the tension will pass. (Spoiler alert: it doesn't!)
If you are interested in a brief chat to find out more about what we offer for Dads, Stepcouples, or of course Stepmums, follow the links below.
Sam, Essex
Looking back, I was completely burying my head in the sand about the impact my ex was having on my new relationship. I was terrified she’d turn my kids against me, so I avoided conflict and never stood up for myself. Working with Katie helped me realise I could set boundaries without making things worse, and actually improve the time I spend with my children. I was sceptical about coaching at first, but it’s been a game-changer. I genuinely recommend Katie to any dads feeling stuck.
Alex, Dorset
Coaching was a last resort for me. I didn’t know what else to do. I just wanted everyone to get along, but I kept avoiding things, hoping they’d sort themselves out. My kids weren’t happy, my partner wasn’t happy, and I felt stuck in the middle. Working with Katie made me take a proper look at how I was showing up. She asked the kind of questions that really made me think. I started to see how I could make changes and show my kids they mattered without leaving my partner feeling sidelined. I wasn’t sure coaching would help, but I’m glad I gave it a go.
Josh, Northampton
After losing my wife, I was just trying to keep things steady for the kids. When I started a new relationship, I didn’t realise how much I was still carrying. Coaching with Katie helped me face some tough truths and find a way to support my kids while also being fair to my partner. It’s made a real difference.