I've just seen this post and totally agree. We tried to live together during lockdown but I moved into what was his previous family home with my son and it was an absolute nightmare. We lasted 4 weeks before I cried and came home. There's been a lot of trauma on his side with his children and mental health issues etc. So I took a massive step back and basically for the last year I've been avoiding spending time with all of us together. I don't want to live my life like this but I'm still young and my son is only 9 so I also don't want to be alone forever. I wish I'd just married the right person the first time around and then I wouldn't be in this predicament!