Hi,
Not sure excatly where you are from but I'm living in Northamptonshire so not too far from Bedford. Would lbe great to have other step mum friends to meet for a cooffe/ walk and talk about all the feelings you go through.
I have a very nearly 6 year old stepdaughter. I have been in her life since she was 2.5 years old.
We also have a 5 week old ours baby.